Life is to Stressful

So I have been doing a lot of thinking lately. I have been glancing over job posting just to figure out what kind of stuff is out there. the hard of that is i have no idea where we are going to be living. I want to be around my family, but then I feel bad that randy can't be around his. I was thinking that living half way between them would work, but knowing our luck we won't be able to find any jobs there. So when I was looking around I was looking at other states. But then trying to narrow down what states that we would want to live in. So far it is nothing that is cold so probably not any further north then what we are now, no east coast, no west coast, and no where that the cost of living is to high. This next year is going to bring about a lot of stress trying to graduate college and packing and moving to God knows where. Why does life have to be so difficult?